Monday, August 30, 2010
The Last 10 Nights of Ramadan
Lately, I have found myself struggling with how I will be able to fit in all the ibadaat I want do during the last ten nights.
Not to dishearten or target the supportive mehrams, single sisters or married friends without children in my life… but some get to spend a lot of time at the Masjid. This includes going to the Masjid for Fajr- staying up after sahoor. Joining congregation during for Zuhr , Asr and Maghrib. While they are going to go for Tarawee, they might as well go early and catch Isha. If your keeping count-that’s a whole lot of reward.
Yes, I know women are not required to pray in the masjid BUT you have to admit, if you’re a mother it’s a treat to even have a little Kushuu during your prayers.
Ever catch yourself dreaming about someone offering to watch the kids- during each prayer and even extra time for you to read Quran?! How about memorizing? Can you recall the last time you had enough brain cells to memorize- anything other than a nursery rhyme?
I am all about conditioning my kid. Really. I think that with time and consistency some parents can help their children adapt to these habits… but they are still children and squirmy by nature!
OKAY, I will say it out loud. As a first time Mom this year, I really miss Ramadan.
Ramadan before motherhood was so different. I actually had an attention span! I could accomplish so much and even make time to wrap cute eid presents. Cellophane wrap and all!
Don’t get me wrong… I love love love motherhood... but it’s different.
With Ramadan nearing to an end, I am DETERMINED to get in some serious ibadaat time. Yes you heard correct- I am walking away from cellophane this year! I much rather use my time towards doing deeds that make me closer to Allah Subhana ta Ala.
What are all my other Muslimah Mama’s planning on doing to make the last 10 nights SUPER beneficial?
Will you Qiyam it at the masjid with your kids?
Will you attempt to Tarawee it, even if your kid steals other children’s sippy cups?
Will you ask Hubby to take the night shift- while you muster up some energy and stay up at night?
How will you get your Husband involved?